the CRISIS 1. Taking ON FAMILY COMMITMENTS
the First years of the relationship are perhaps the most vivid and intense emotions. Meanwhile, it is the most difficult period for the couple. It is no secret that many families are not living together. The difficulties of this period are associated with family adaptation and the need to adopt new roles, as well as with incomplete separation of the spouses from their parental families. (Read more about this stage)
CRISIS 2. THE APPEARANCE OF THE CHILD.
Following a transitional stage due to the birth of the first child. Very important here is the role of family relationships. Couples who have successfully coped with the tasks of the previous period, it is much easier to accept the role of father or mother. (Learn more about this phase)
the CRISIS 3. THE FIRST CONTACT OF THE CHILD WITH SOCIETY - KINDERGARTEN AND SCHOOL.
At this stage, mothers need to reduce interaction with the child, to pay attention to the relationship with her husband, and to recall his own career. The family will have to redistribute the responsibilities and upgrade of the border. If both partners work, they must come to agreement in several areas of life.
the CRISIS 4. PODROSTKOVY WORRRRY
the Family must prepare for the fact the child grows, and by the time they reach sexual maturity to be fully prepared!
This period includes two very important and difficult for a child process:
- Gradual separation from parents and rejection of them as the main love object.
2. The search for new love objects outside the family.
Here, the partners are also faced with the need to re-evaluate their relationship that may be complicated by the onset of the crisis, "mid-life".
the CRISIS 5. THE FAMILY RELEASING A BABY.
Partners once again be faced with the necessity of reconsidering their relationship. And it may happen, especially if they mainly dealt with the problems of the child that they simply forget that they were connected before, and therefore under question would be the explanation of continue family life. It is important to remember that this time is very favorable in order to resolve long-standing issues that have not been solved, for example, due to a lack of a long period of dyads.
This phase is often called the "empty nest". If the pair was able to let go of the child, while maintaining a close relationship between sosboy, it runs quietly and smoothly. To the fore again are personal relationships. As for the child, only if he lost the previous crisis, he finds freedom to build new relationships (the cycle is closed!), while retaining its ability to safely get closer to the parental home.
I hope this topic will help you to identify your nearest crisis and successfully prepare for it! If you have any questions, ask them in the comments or personal message.
I sincerely want to wish you that in your relationship every day became more and more harmonious and happier!