the Vest from injuries…
Notes of a psychologist.
the Eyes are the mirror of the Soul. In the process of therapy I have maintained with the client not only verbal contact, but visual…. And, you know, eye contact is one of the most physical contact, in the eyes of their clients, I read the story of their childhood, their early traumas of betrayal, humiliation…In consequence of injury wear masks:
1. Rejection: the body is narrow, small, weak muscle tone, can be anorexia, escapes into spiritual things. Glance to nowhere. The fleeing behavior. I want to disappear, to evaporate. Maybe as compensation the bright appearance, or, conversely, the ‘grey mouse”.
It: “I am sick of… No one, nothing, disappear, not exist…”.
2. Abandonment issues: body narrow, talking about independence.
It: “One… I throw… Missing… I can't stand… They don't depend on me…”.
Mask : Dependent.
3. Humiliation: the fear of freedom. The experience of shame, humiliation, shame, feelings that he is unworthy.
It: “Unworthy… Thick… Disgusting… Dirty… I'm busy…”.
mask of the masochist.
4. of Betrayal: a body beautiful. Criticizes dependent. Controller. Does not like victims, but lives with the victim and left.
Speech: “I can… Trust me… You know… I don't trust him… I knew it… to be Honest… listen to me…”.
mask of the Controller.
5. Injustice: the body is very correct, inflated. The desire to improve. Fear of mistakes.
It: “I… Super… Right… Super… No problem…”.
so develops a life script of an injured Child. For success in a variety of types of relationships and in life in General, you need one important condition – genuine LOVE…
Indications for psychotherapeutic work:
- interpersonal boundaries,
- parent-child relationships,
- ADHD syndrome (attention deficit with hyperactivity),
the - crisis
- breach of contact, and
- autistic spectrum disorders
- disorders of emotional and volitional,
- various injuries (injuries to the development of shock, trauma – PTSD)
- the mountain, loss,
- sexual dysfunction
- panic attacks,
- anxiety phobic disorder
- low energy level-m fading
- difficulty achieving goals (career success, school performance), etc.
As he thought of the great K. G. Yung, our masks – this is only psychological protection of children's Ego from the damaging effects of trauma. For such a bullet-proof vest hidden untold wealth – the most powerful sources of various energies. Transpersonal psychotherapy immersed in the underworld, trauma, and releases the energy of unconditional Love, a child's Joy and Happiness, energy, healthy Sexuality, Power, energy, Money, energy, kind of… Just not everyone decided to go down to the dungeon to revive a happy. Such a feat is capable only true brave true Heroes!!!
Healing the trauma of childhood
You open the flow of energy, strength, health, success, money, love!