How often, peering in the mirror, you see yourself through the eyes of a dissatisfied mother, captious father, friend, partisan, arrogant teachers, judgmental neighbor…
other people's evaluations, opinions, judgments, attitudes, words,…
ALIEN essence your perception of yourself!
But you now do not think, do not know…
You absorb the shame, embarrassment, awkwardness…
Want to take your eye, look away, press …
I Want to apologize, to make excuses, to accept…
I Want to run away, to hide, to shrink in size, die…
Stop! Stop…
Find the strength and “move” all of them myself. One hand stop the flow of slavomacedonians.
Hear how quiet it is!
now, slowly raise your eyes. Find the strength and take a look. Look at you with my own eyes. Look with interest and curiosity, used to look at something unfamiliar and unknown. Look, consider, learn. Do it impartially. After all, to have any opinion about anything, it is necessary to look, to examine, to touch.
Well, your first meeting with him happened! It happened in silence and solitude; without observers and advisers. Only you and you. You – authentic, real, perfect, unique, inimitable and unique in its kind. Yes, you are, after all, other nature does not produce! And you – embarrassed, distrustful, doubting.
You will remember this day forever! Because it's the beginning of a great, lovely and a passionate love affair – the novel itself. Believe me, this is the only way to become a holistic, self-sufficient and happy. And, jumping ahead a little, tell you a secret – just such qualities and properties people are able to build a harmonious, healthy and happy relationships with others.
Well, as in a good novel, today you expect a lot of amazing encounters and discoveries, delights and disappointments, tests for strength and depth, a lot of mental labor and agony.
And if the epilogue of the first meeting will be born a Love, you know – this relationship FOREVER!
did you Know that we are not born with the ability to love, we gain her lifetime! And the first experience of love – to love myself: unconditionally, truly, deeply and selflessly. A man who knows how to love himself is able to love another. So you are on the right and glorious path. Important – don't stop, no matter how difficult!
in the meantime, proglyadyvaya, peered, look…
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