you Know what love is? Of course I do! Who may not know?! It seems so simple – have met two people that liked each other and they began a love. Passed a couple of years, maybe even less, and began differences. And, if you ask one of them, and what is the reason of these quarrels, very often built a rough list:

1. Yes, I spend my days cooking, cleaning...
2. children I bore for him.
3. the best years I gave him...
4. I his career refused to...
5. I forgot what is the rest...
6. I don't have time...
7. He doesn't understand me etc. etc..

1. I spend all day making...
2. She keeps something from me requires...
3. my friends and I hardly see...
4. It all day shoots ...
5. She's always dissatisfied with something...
6. She's jealous of everything that moves...
7. She can't hear me, etc. etc..

And if any of you know firsthand, you should ask the question - is there any love? What is it that real, not beautiful words on postcards and not in movies, but in life, in relationships and sensations which accompany life, as yesterday.

1. Love is when you want to develop, become better so you can have something to share with a partner. When you're bored and uninteresting alone, that other people may not feel the same being next to you?
2. Love is the desire to participate and assist to the best of their ability, in the life of a loved one. Because you care about not only you and your development, but there is still interest and respect for the development of important for you.
3. Love is a joint plans and goals. Since the lack thereof, speaks of the folly of relationships, lack of joint vision of the route through life.
4. Love is your integrity and the integrity of a loved one, because you complement each other and equal and independent halves. Than integrity and the content of each one of you individually, the more you can give each other.
5. Love is when you don't obey and not obey. To obey is akin to what you're begging for love, breaking itself. Subjugate - akin to sculpting out of clay, in which there is no person that you love, and the one that maimed the process of creating the illusions of another.
6. Love is the absence of jealousy, because you know how much to invest in your love, work on self-improvement, so like anyone else, you deserve to love your partner and receive the same in return from him.
7. Love is always mutual, since the satellites of the non-reciprocal love are anguish, pain, sorrow, and it has nothing to do with love, which runs parallel with joy, enthusiasm, happiness.

And if your relationship does not bring such joy, enthusiasm and happiness, filled with different content, right now, it's time to think about what to make, what to Supplement, how to improve that later failed had of them to run.