the Question is quite difficult for all, it would seem that his evidence. Especially for women with their principles, at the age of forty. I often work with clients on similar topics, family psychologist, psychotherapist and sexologist.

There are certain differences, I would call it a generational thing. And quite often what you allow yourself girl 25, the ladies over forty, to allow. But you always want to be sexy, bright, only, give good sex.

This problem was standing in front of my client from Moscow. Not so long ago she started a relationship with a man with whom planned future marriage. So she came to see me, as a sexologist, psychotherapist, and family therapist to fix their thoughts, and add missing properties.

First she would like more frequent meetings, but what can you do: these are men. They dosed these meetings, even in the presence of bright feelings. This is especially characteristic of them at the age of fifty years, when they used to live alone and feel quite comfortable. Men not willing so suddenly to change his life, and to let someone, even if we are talking about the woman he loves.

All this I explained to my client from Moscow, clarifying for her the difference between male and female views on the topic of relationships.

Next, came the desire of women to skills development sex. It is worth asking: what is for themselves in the male sex? Partner my client from Moscow with a little potency, sometimes there are failures in erection. Frequent sex, he does not pull. At the time oral sex is embarrassed, and does not comment on actions of the partner.

Therefore, most likely: he is also a child of his time and sexual taboos. And in this they may be similar. Probably not necessary to show some kind of sexual motions. It is better to behave naturally, showing their feelings to the partner, and it will give the kind of sex that is needed by both.

However, I note that sometimes women want something to study on courses related to sex. It is quite possible, but it should not be beyond motivation.

Next, came the alarm: "handle it?" This is due to low self-esteem, and the fact that the man is not ready to get close enough to make the decision, and start living together permanently. We, psychologists, sexologists, often with this dilemma.

Here for my client's work is important for confidence, and the proper construction of behavior or actions in terms of steps to obtain the desired object.

This work I'm doing, where we thoroughly understanding of the relationship, and acknowledge what is of value to men. And further, my client from Moscow it is necessary to enter in these values to become an integral part thereof.

I Note, as a sexologist, psychotherapist and family psychologist that the client in this case also it will be necessary to gain understanding of what is happening, eliminating their "cockroaches". Then she will find a sober look at the relationship, and will not hang her, and that will contribute to getting what you want.

In this direction we will continue with her next work, plus extra practice for the development of women's sexuality and sensuality (it is at the request of the client).