How often do we ask ourselves the question why such such men (women) in my pathway?

Look at your girlfriend (friend) all is quiet, calm, household. And I have a trouble maker, aggressor and irresponsible.

And so:

*the World is our MIRROR. If we left boot, our partner (fiancee) is clearly right. If You have a trouble maker, irresponsible aggressors and maybe You are too quiet, calm and responsible?

*the WORLD is FAIR. For nature (who wants to – God) the most important is the survival of the offspring. Not Your thoughts, emotions and feelings. Active you – he (she) is passive. Two brakes will not survive in this world, and yourself! And activator And the two will share power over the years. By the way, and harmonious couples, and couples with dependent relations are formed on the principle – to survive. To survive himself and to give this opportunity to children.

*We are always in relationship are CONNECTED with a PROBLEM. One is struggling with a problem (e.g., alcoholism and tries to pull the other), the other is not. If You have, that no man (woman), "child", then ask yourself the question: "can You?" Somewhere very deep inside? ))) But fighting...)))

*TOO BRIGHT QUALITY. He's too aggressive! Maybe You're too quiet? Too slow! And You are hot-headed? By the way...Too cheap! And You are full spender? ))) Again, recall the principle of the mirror (item No. 1)

*the SIMILARITY of INTERESTS. Harmonious couples usually have mutual friends, common Hobbies. You don't have to talk to another friend? You ain't been out for 10 years? (More on this in another article).

PARABLE.

the Three sisters.

there Lived three sisters. The first is a wicked, vicious. Second – lazy, prativa. And the third is hard-working, prerabotka... And farming runs, and bakes pies, and the cross embroider... And then one day they grew up and came to their FATE. Put on your cart and drove to marry.

Lucky you.. And suddenly stops in front of the hut. Hut neat, well groomed.. In the yard the horse chestnut stands. In the meadow the cow grazes. Chickens, geese. And the guy in the yard walking. Kind, sweet. All will help. Good word everyone say.

Says the fate of the evil maid : "That's your husband. Get off the wagon".

Go on. Lucky you.. And suddenly stops in front of the hut. Hut well-groomed, well-dressed, good-quality.. In the yard of a black horse standing. In the meadow the cow grazes. Chickens, geese. And the guy in the yard walking. Hard-working, parabati. All the work in my house was redone, and even relatives will help.

Tells the FATE of a lazy girl : "That's your husband. Get off the wagon".

Go on. Lucky you.. And suddenly stops in front of the hut. Hut leaned over. Well on the web... And near the well on the grass the man is asleep toli toli drunk.

Says FATE is kind, hard-working girl: "That's your husband. Get off the wagon".

"what other suitors – no! Left?"

"There! But this be LOST without you!"