This is a very common male sexual problem, which we all sexologists, therapists, and family psychologists.

the Specialists understand how the client have a hard time. The problem of the syndrome of the troublesome expectation of sexual failures (STOCK) not the one from which you can quickly get rid of.

Now I have the reception was attended by a customer from Moscow. Guy a little over thirty. While he, as the saying goes:. Although with his condition, does not work so quickly and actively as I would like. With all this I began to understand.

the First thing evident is the features of his mentality, character and overall behaviour. Often type here is disturbing-hypochondriac, which will always find in himself the complexity of the real and imaginary, that will be a negative impact in the whole life, and sex.

Now the man said that he probably has not the energy tone, which he would want. Besides, no sexual drive, and sexual urge he substitutes for Masturbation. In the end, are more likely to suffer relationship that, in the long term would be possible.

We approached the subject in order to understand and resolve the difficulties associated with such behavior my client from Moscow.

the First is the habit of Masturbation. It is clear that all men masturbate: someone with children, someone with Teens. But then, everything is as usual replaced with sex. Here the customer is evident is that he has not matured, and still, many years later, the habit to masturbate for him is the preference which he uses. In the end, a variant of the paired sex is replaced by a variant of "solo".

at One time man believed that with time the situation will change, and everything goes by itself, now has realized that he can not cope.

Here I am, as a psychologist-sexologist, helped to remove him co-morbid conditions: self-doubt, thoughts that I do not like girls, not good enough, including, and sex.

Then, as expected, recalled the number of sexual partners that confirm this fact. But all was not so bleak as painted in the psyche of the client. There were many good girls and normal sex.

Here, we, by eliminating past experiences, removed his anxiety, artificiality and nagruzhennosti.

Next, a classic work on self-confidence, and to build adequate self-esteem.

the Desired state of my client from Moscow has changed, he said he is almost ready to switch to sex, and reduce Masturbation.

And now, I, as a sexologist, psychotherapist and marriage counselor, to work out the "almost". You will work with povzroslevshie sexual identity, which prevents the guy to behave in sex, as an adult man.

But not so fast as we would like. Here it is necessary to make a number of iterations to approach the desired state in a hassle-free option.

And then the willingness men to engage in intercourse in the version that I would like to have, is the maximum likely.

P. S. This article is fictional and real characters is irrelevant.

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