In my practice family psychologist, psychotherapist and sex therapist, working with male sexual problems in the aspect of STOCK (the syndrome of the troublesome expectation of sexual failures) are not uncommon. Probably among men who consulted this complexity is in the first place.

Now I had a client from Moscow who had STOCK, but in the aspect that he didn't have the psychological component of sex.

I Must say that this kind of complexity sometimes seen in men who tend to frequent Masturbation. I will say the information is good to know the specialists working with male and female sexual problems. For men, and earlier, boys, Masturbation is common to all, in contrast to girls, where not everyone Masturbates, especially in childhood and early adolescence.

Therefore, men gets used to it from an early age.

I Note that my client not so long ago I met a girl, yet full of trust, and there are different kinds of difficulty: will be all right in sex, or if you have the desire, why not an erection, etc. besides, next is something already of the series: there is no limit to perfection. The guy thinks he has a small penis size, with average sizes of penis.

Well, perhaps that's enough of a problem field, and it is time to begin to sort this out.

First, as I already announced, came the habit of masturbating in a solo, and a screening question to exclude the problematic physiological factors: there are no failures – everything is fine. So we have this habit to change. Now my client from Moscow realized that the cause of failure will be related to the fact that he's already dead, hence the level of libido goes down. Therefore, it is not necessary to abuse it before sex.

Then, the psychological component of fun, what can I say, if a lot of different kinds of problems: systems, thoughts, General depression - there will be no fun. Accordingly, I, as a family psychologist, psychotherapist and sexologist, should work on all the things that have shaped the state of the syndrome of the troublesome expectation of sexual failures, and the problem of STON. Then everyone, even not necessarily from the sphere of sexology, will have their own methods and approaches. Not going this deep to stop, I will outline just canvas.

When we did, the following what is evident is that the guy did not have the coldness and confidence. Here is a classic for us, family psychologists and psychotherapists – confidence in our wheelhouse, and then the coldness. Here it already will be on a holistic image of me, ready to act in sex as I would like.

Is to work with the customer's identity, but when resolved components problems of the syndrome of the troublesome expectation of sexual failures (STON), then usually there is no problem.

That's the whole canvas works with sexual male problem.

P. S. This article is fictional and real characters is irrelevant. #sexologically #anorgasmia #vaginismus #seksologov #frigidity