How to eliminate vaginismus? Want to have sex. How to remove anorgasmia? Sexy women's issues

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the Problem is one of the most complex female sexual problems. Working with vaginismus often difficult because the girl can not understand and realize what's wrong with her. Often there is not enough confidence many fears, especially thoughts on the subject of pain. Complexity here mainly will be related to the fact that the girl or woman does not think with the categories of adult, and most of it is just the thoughts of a child for whom sex is a kind of anomaly. Hence, the problem state is maintained for so long, often as long as the girl doesn't grow up psychologically. But it is difficult to realize that side of themselves, and as they say: "to get himself out of trouble."

So the problem must be solved in conjunction with a sex therapist, psychotherapist or marriage counselor.

Now I came to accept the client from Moscow. I must say that the complexity defloration've already let her go, but after that sex became better not. For ladies with feminine sexual problem typical is the situation when the defloration here solves nothing, including surgery.

the Girl still not allowed to a husband in intimate terms, and now came the moment when the need was to do something in order to become a full-fledged woman.

Here is primary, and that is usually my indicator of problems will be the sexual identity of the client. And if we see the virtual appearance of the girl or the girl early age, she will feel the fear of a child who is absolutely not ready to have sex. Here the situation was somewhat different. Identity was a girl aged twenty years. My client from Moscow said she was always in the age of mindfulness in sex, but she never really wanted sex.

Now she became more determined, formed sexual desire in my head, but there was the realization on the physical level. Here one would see "track", and understand how are thoughts, and as will be reflected on the physical aspect of the girl. We, family psychologists, psychotherapists and sexologists, always working in that direction.

First – the head. For example, there is a desire, it further goes down to reach the female sexual sphere.

And the first obstacle is the fear of living in my stomach. Remembered negative words with regards to sex and the costs of education, which came down from grandmothers and mothers.

We've removed this fear from my client from Moscow, and moved a little lower. Was in the area of spazmirovannah muscles, when they were reduced and strained at the thought that now would be a sexual act.

Here we act through awareness. If the above has no fear, and he gave a specific block of muscle, and now had nothing to block her sexual desire.

I, as a sex therapist. psychotherapist and family psychologist, filled the girl with missing energy. positive thoughts, attitude and overall sexuality, increasing libido and confidence.

Now I let her go to client "checked out" their changed status in the work.

And then we will act, that is to say: "in fact" the presence or absence of female sexual problems, and vaginismus in particular.

P. S. This article is fictional and real characters is irrelevant. #sexologically #anorgasmia #vaginismus #seksologov #frigidity

Afanasyev Lily
2018-10-11
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