After you have decided what you want from marriage and future husband, let's talk about beliefs.
You have no idea how much affect our lives fears and beliefs. Under the beliefs, I mean limiting beliefs that arise from social, family or cultural attitudes. We think we are masters of our life, and in fact, these beliefs limit our freedom and prevent to live your own life. The first step that you need to do is to find limiting beliefs, to make them aware. Here are just a few of the most common beliefs:
Easy with such conviction to find a suitable partner and get married?
And what do you do? you can ask:
- to Work with these beliefs! Alone or with a psychologist. You can try this technique:
- Look at the strong limiting belief and see how it holds. For example, let's look at the belief: if I'm not getting married till 35 years, will remain a spinster.
- Now let us evaluate the validity of this belief. Is it really so? Do not get married at 38 or 45 years? This is 100 percent true?
- If your answer is Yes – think this is true for all women or only for you? If only for you, then why?
- If other women cannot find a husband after 35 that you need in order to achieve the same?
similarly, you can work out all your limiting beliefs.
in addition to belief there are still fears, but with them it is better to work with a specialist.
good Luck and love!
to be Continued...
