Hello my Dear!
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So, Once there comes the moment when a woman decides to devote myself to my man without the rest!
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Start extremes:
- a Woman leaves work, Hobbies, friends, and just drink a glass of lemonade in a cafe , she can't walk.
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- Hits a household, or furiously disappears in the cabins and halls
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- Loses the ability to earn her the individual is becoming less.
- Thinks: "he loves me" or "I bore him a child", "I give him my years," "I am beautiful for him", "we are family"- like where he go. And in this, he Must!
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of Course, all will be well with you, and you will not regret their extremes, only if:
- your relationship will remain unchanged for centuries. Although everyone and everything is constantly changing;
- you don't degrade;
- you will never catch up to the question of self-realization. Especially when the children grow up;
- in a pinch, you signed a marriage contract with the most severe conditions))
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But if something goes wrong?! For example: You left, he left, became not interesting, children do not need you, the crisis, etc.?
These scenarios are played in a million tearful films, broadcasts and books!
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... And here she was left puzzled, "how so?", "Why I gave up what is important to me?", "Why, I ceased to make itself", " What I can do?", "What to do?"
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Yes, of course, to blame It! Who would doubt!
Just because the responsibility, the woman no one was taking! She decided to lose your income, your passions, your desires.
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Yes, the situations are different, there are some exceptions. But
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Trust, love, believe, and lean on your man!
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Here only it is desirable:
- to Protect its borders;
-do Not merge no residue;
- do Not lose yourself forever in pans, nappies;
- to Live taking into account their wishes and loved ones;
- be looking for their interests;
to earn money;
- to not only Deal a or not only family;
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Find the middle ground!
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Your personal psychologist,
Victoria Lebedenko