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Alyosha was born a tiny, premature baby. Barely out.In the seventh month, and it survived! Mom and dad have created to it all conditions. The best doctors, massage therapists...To three years of a child caught up in the development of their peers.
a happy family, without harmful habits, with a very strong social support. Mom never went out to work, regardless of their education tutor. And in particular was not necessary. Alyosha's father held a high position and was known as a notable climber.
- it's Time to give the child to kindergarten, not the same age for him to sit beside you. And you also discover out how to sew, knit! advised friends and family...
- No,you're crazy! You think I don't know what might be waiting for my son in kindergarten? Well there it hurt!
Yes. in fact, man as a growing, instructed the young mother in-law.
Aleshkina mother did not agree. And Alyosha grew up a loner, slightly weird boy. Mom was going to walk to the site, but avoided contact with other children. "No ,son, we have nothing to do here" - said she to her son, seeing the kids in the sandbox, and he meekly trailed behind her in some secluded place.
School...that is the most difficult period, when the mother of Alyosha had not easily accepted the need to part with her son for half a day.
- He's so sick! Barely out! - Aleshkina said the mother to the class teacher, an experienced educator with forty years of experience...
-So what is it hurting? Good boy, a little shy, but it's not the worst. Well-mannered. Immediately see, of noble blood.
- Oh, stop it! He is sick..He did not. Allergies, colds easily. It is necessary to observe a temperature mode. He can't SuperCool...
Alyosha was growing up. Dad daily drove it to school by car, of which Alyosha was looking at public transport. Trams, trolley buses! "That would be a ride!".
- Alyosha, what are you?! There is one infection....
Alyosha would a brother or sister, but mom told her a categorical "No!". One and only son, patronized and protected by parents.
Alesha is Now studying at the University.
And Alyosha misses class without a valid reason. Dad dropping him on the car and our young romantic pretends that there is a pair collapses in an unknown direction...
Recently, Alyosha came to me for advice. Or rather led by his mother. Cried a lot, talked about their difficult birth, somehow, "the accident" child, my son...


the Young man 20 years. Looks like the boys at fifteen or sixteen years old...
- Alyosha, you yourself, what you want? - I asked the young man.
- I don't even know what I want. I like to walk...Just walk...Breathe the air.
- You flunked out of uni because you lack freedom?
smiling Shyly.
- Yes, but also due to the fact that people do not find a common language.In school sick, was on individual training. Then uni...no friends, No girlfriends. Teachers do not like for my mother... - sighs Alyosha.
-how did you feel when the parents found out that you skipped the Cola?
-Fear! That will punish me (although life has not been punished). I was frightened as presented, I'll have to explain to your parents...
the Soul of your care parents, please take a look at ourselves. Immature personal position. is manifested in the fact that mom and dad had a child in University, hoping to "so it will be better."
Alyosha reminds potted flower pointed caring hands of his mother. His life proceeds on the principle of "Where to put, and I will be there to stand". And along with this, the absenteeism at the Institute became the main reason for the reason for the parents to the psychologist, who needs to help their son...Infantile personality with inept arguments, misunderstanding, sense of responsibility, unawareness of their rights of choice...
No, Alyosha, not truancy, because truancy you are trying to compensate for something that you suppress for many years, your right to free movement, without my mother's control, your right to life, but only your own...


Hope Arkhangelsk
2018-03-28
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