the Man who came to see me, as a sexologist, psychotherapist and marriage counselor, feel uncomfortable. There were failures in terms of erection and potency, there was a syndrome of the troublesome expectation of sexual failures (STON). Overall, recently, my client from Moscow, kept to himself, and have not even wanted to have sex.

Not so long ago he got divorced. He lived in the apartment alone, feeling lonely. Began to masturbate, I realized that this is part of some kind of habit and addiction. If he used, some situations dismantled with his wife, now – alone with yourself... In the end it all comes down to Masturbation, and somehow compensated for the lack of women in his life and also acted as an imaginary solution to common problems.

To me the client sent a male sexual problem - the syndrome of the troublesome expectation of sexual failures (STOCK), but more all boiled down to the fact that no one can make sex. I would have to build a strong and lasting relationship with the single that would become his destiny.

But the Dating experience, due to the mentioned reasons my client from Moscow was generally negative. With that we began to understand sexual therapy.

Originally a man was typical of the doldrums. In school it is often compressed. He grew up insecure and painful. Accordingly, it was observed a General discomfort that come from the past. In this variant, we understand the negative blockages in the psyche of the customer, and make a person more for adults and confident.

In principle, this is a classic in the work of all therapists and family psychologists, therefore, we will not be here to dwell. Then comes the next phase of changes – practice on self-esteem and establish confidence.

Next, I, as a sexologist, psychotherapist and marriage counselor, and we discussed erogenous zones. The man said that he is a brain. What can I say? Men always very logical. But, in addition, there still are some feelings.

They can get them from women, if for example, man feelings is not enough, or difficult to prove, because assuming that people are two halves, and we complement each other, the man gets it from a woman.

But if his area of excitation of the brain – then it is worth considering this feature, and to make man more sensitive and sensual, he was willing to manifestation, for example, love, or enhance sexual component. In this case, he will give the woman and feelings, and love. I note, as a psychologist-sexologist, my client from Moscow until it was ready. But for him to be sexy and desirable woman with a brain, i.e. one that can affect delicate strings in the depths of his soul.

This is good for certain categories of women. They don't have to be beautiful, you just have to be on the same brain wave with your partner. But then you have to put up with the rest of its shortcomings.

ideally, but my brain must still be included and the body – area of feelings and emotions (soul love). The lower part there lives for sex and passion. If our erogenous zone is somewhere in one area affected other areas.

When I, as a sexologist, psychotherapist and family psychologist, voiced by the client from Moscow this theme, he said he may want to think about it, and finding that woman that will be able to give it to him. But keep in mind that if a man closed in feelings, often it closes and sex. A sexual partner all bear in ourselves, and arise as a result of the syndrome of the troublesome expectation of sexual failures (STON).

Therefore, it is necessary to open yourself, partner, worldwide, to take a reference to this aspect of sensuality, and not to "bury" it in, pumping the problem state.

Here is food for thought my client from Moscow with the syndrome of the troublesome expectation of sexual failures. Next, they recruited solving the difficulties, we gradually get closer directly to STOCK.

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