it Often happens, that a prima, as a sexologist, psychotherapist and family therapist, clients come from Moscow and Voronezh with their problems: "I think I lost the appeal in his eyes. He's with me not as gentle as before, sex is not the same (or men start to arise, some, sexual problems)".

All this affects the self-esteem of girls, and your confidence as a woman. And even if it's a personal problem men (for example, problems with potency or erections, or the syndrome of the troublesome expectation of sexual failures (STON)) – that she begins to think about her.

we are All sexologists, psychotherapists and family counselors explain to their clients that it is always necessary to understand before to broadcast the labels themselves.

I will Say one thing that is extremely important: the girl should be good (normal-esteem) and confidence. Then she will not take on other people's problems and to see themselves in a negative light, because, often, men it is easier to blame your partner to some sexy men's difficulties, rather than look for a problem in itself.

And the girl with inner personal problems, it is always easier to lose your sexual inadequacy.

for example, my client from Moscow. She asked me to work on Skype on the fact that the guy decided to part with it. He didn't even really explained reason, once said that she didn't tickle him, does it not arguing.

In this situation, I usually see two options – first, after all, to leave, through the module raslablenija, but if a woman is still a big love, and is there any chance to restore relations, it is often not ready for this step.

if possible the second option - to try to settle relations in the pair, including sexual, through a change in the vision of the client.

Sometimes it helps in maintaining the relationship, but even if not, the person begins to understand, at least, himself, takes off the rose-colored glasses, or too dark glasses negative vision, and watches for the real situation. In the end, it takes more than the right decision for you, which greatly facilitates the life to the person and the work of professionals: psychotherapists, sexologists, and marriage counseling.

If we go back to my client from Moscow, we have overlooked the fact that her partner has always been a weak woman, and he knew how they behave.

Here was the dominant, realized the girl, understanding and behavior of "adult" and not entirely comfortable state of "child," her partner it was difficult to find some compromise.

Here, the man is often better to retreat, and again to "switch" the weak women. But the fact is that if a man "try" the taste of a girl, often do not want to return to the previous set of ladies, so in the relationship there was a pause, and the man didn't make the decision: neither there nor here. He and things were not taken away, and just kept pause, and wrong, did not know how best to do it in this situation.

Now, when the girl came to an understanding, plus removed the slander with yourself (it's all about her and she some not so), then it is much easier to make a decision: how to proceed in this situation.

Here, in fact, all of our work at this time.

I want to invite you to their free webinars on the topic of the female orgasm, razljubila and sexuality. Besides, I will explain the difference in female and male approach to the same sex, and General Outlook on life.

All details on the portal b-17 in the section "Webinars". Besides, I will answer all your questions that arise in the course of our work, plus invite you at the reception on the revision of the problem field, which you yourself highlight.

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