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Shame. A painful feeling caused by awareness of the silliness or fallacy of their own actions.⠀

Shame overtakes as a bully from around the corner, after emotionally committed actions. The emotions subside, fade into the background and brains included.⠀

what is the shame if the deeds already done, and the previous situation will not return?⠀

One thing, if evolution has created a sense of shame as a way of learning. That is, in order to prevent further execution of the same stupid things. Everything is clear: messed up, saw the light about his actions, felt an internal discomfort with the words "well, I durachechek so annoying, won't do it again" and draw conclusions. It is productive.⠀

And what if the feeling of shame appears on the empty seemingly place? Takes possession of all our being and he want to climb the wall. Devalues us and everything we do.⠀

What is the mechanism of origin of this kind of shame?⠀

Adults individuals, whose emotion was neglected in childhood tend to feel a kind of shame. The parents thought their emotions excessive and inappropriate. ⠀

Growing up, a man is afraid of his emotions and feelings and, as it were, hears the parent's voice in my head: a sense of excessive curiosity ("minding your business", "you're too early to know"), a strong sense of love ("you make me so suffocate, don't hurt me this way", "don't need to kiss me we're in a public place"), anger ("good kids don't behave like that," "do not swear and to be angry"), etc.⠀

Personality corked in a bottle, the obsolete parent plants. The man is afraid to seem ridiculous, as all will laugh at him. Afraid to put yourself first, because ashamed and wrong to think about yourself first. Afraid to say too much, to report on their successes, eat an extra slice of cake.⠀

In such cases, shame breaks, drinks and empties, forcing infinite to reflect. Cycle-by-cycle the head moves from the awkward scene, behaviour or action. Bloody hell.⠀

the following Question arises: whether a person wants to get rid of unproductive feelings of shame or he is comfortable to be in his comfortable bottle with shame. Clog it and you're in the house. Uncomfortable, of course, but familiar.


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