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the Cockroach, the cockroach, tarakashek,Giganova bugger-tiny insect.Remember this poem? In each of us, most of these casevaced abound , we periodically destroy them, beat them, kicked out, hunted, but, unfortunately, as in life, they appear again and again and prevents us to live a normal life. How do we fight these pesky insects we have in mind?There are many varieties of these cockroaches: there are small that are due to our misconceptions , fears, feelings, they are usually not so significant, and how it appeared and disappeared. But there are Suddenly of podvorantsy giant,Red-haired and patyuta-RA-Kan!Cockroach, Cockroach, Cockroach!

These monsters usually appear in the background of our vivid(and often painful) situations. For example, unfortunate love experience , insults and attacks at school (College , kindergarten), censure and moralizing ones. And we acquired such "neighbor", I can never move from our heads. And he is a workaholic there is something that eats , shits, again in General, creates a pretty nice result. Remember that this is not always the insect crawls out of a bad relationship, sometimes the opposite is true: for example a cockroach vanity , insolence , pride, superiority , appears when you a lot of praise and support in you a sense of uniqueness, well, etc. so a method of struggle:First, of course, to see the villain . Well look at this individual, and understand what he eats - I mean, when (under what psychological circumstances: anger , joy , shyness). For example : I will not listen to this man, he's dumb ignorance! And where did you get it ? - Aah, so he put ' em up ! - you can not stand when you are opposed to (albeit clumsily), and therefore, this cockroach called Pride!Examples of how to see them sooo much, but the point I hope you caught it. By the way, the most difficult to destroy it just did "Staiki", which appeared because of the positive emotional overfeeding. This -" I'm always right," "I know everything better","everything is stupid(in various interpretations)", "I am the best (looks , SMARTS , demeanor)". And they are complex because the person simply does not notice them - they became part of his consciousness!

Oh yeah, I almost forgot : small , which are harmless, are collected in groups and when these groups find a common interest, might hatch a big one - so feel free to abuse them while they are small.The second often look at your reactions ( well, sort of like someone else's eyes) . That is the enemy we know, but that "moose" should be curbed to know his habits! As we begin to say that we have in the head , sweating ,eager to escape, I'm afraid, silly smile, or Vice versa show the pressure and aggression. Learn all about the behavior, go to the dressage!Third - begin to go around, "horse", are stronger mustache , catch spurs and go! Start to control your reactions - switch in the head for a more flowing thoughts and emotions , use breathing techniques and self-control , and slowly and surely begin to manage this "beast"!Fourth - the definition! Ask yourself - if I can manage it, I either leave (in the stall), or sent to graze on the free bread! It is possible to write and sometimes to use that emotion(with full control) and you can completely get rid of it - the choice is yours.Yes, it all sounds simple and easy, but unfortunately it's not so easy to do. Usually, people if not yourself seek help from the psychologists , but perhaps You will succeed!Oh, by the way: do not forget that wrong approach to data destruction of parasites on the basis of the struggle, may be new individuals with immunity to previous methods! I hope You liked the article. Sincerely Basketin Eugene.