Soul and flesh are inseparable,
Like night and day, darkness and light,
As the weakness of women and the power,
As life and death, reality and nonsense.

Vyacheslav Potekhin

to me for advice often come to women in the state of apathy and lack of joy in life. When I ask about their childhood stories are very similar: parents were not up to me, they are all time worked, were busy with themselves, we together went nowhere, I really wanted to draw, to sing, to dance, but you led me there was no one, and indeed the time was such that all lived, and most importantly well-fed, dressed and shod.

Yes, it is difficult to grow up a happy person in an atmosphere of emotional isolation, loneliness and emptiness. Each get much needed love where could: the grandparents, uncles, aunts, girlfriends, a pet cat or dog, someone invented a fairy godmother, which is always bad when prigolubit and regret... And someone at some point would turn off feelings and fully in logic and reason.

different life these women: someone successful at work, but there is no happiness in personal life, someone is lucky to find a loving partner, but I have problems with work, someone is missing the joys of motherhood.

And I begin to work with these young girls, who are hiding inside these Mature women, allow them to cry, offended, angry, worrying. I try to help to see these girls their true desires, to understand and accept their feelings and emotions. Step by step we together cultivate underdeveloped pieces of the soul. Learn again to breathe, to feel, to live.

I want to ask: why when we have a toothache we go to the dentist as a cold to the doctor? And when the soul hurts, we usually endure to the last and try to recover yourself? Why are we so much focused on physical health and often forget about the mental? It is only the relationship of the psyche (soul) and body that makes us full and happy people!

Therefore, if in the process I notice that the client has a very weak connection to his body I begin to ask him to track his feelings in the body: where they are in the body, what feelings cause in the body, what it feels like. Many of my questions lead to a dead end and the client says: I feel nothing, why are you asking me this? But I'm gently trying to establish a connection with the thoughts, feelings and sensations in the body. Sometimes I ask them to draw the client his feeling, feeling. And in the process of this work begins to recall important moments and stories from the client's life that affect him in the present and are associated with the current request. Because the body remembers everything...