First love… Everyone understands it in short its. But for some reason many start to smile when they ask a question about first love. Someone is a little boy from kindergarten who first kissed you on the cheek, and you shared toys in the sandbox.

other memory POPs up romantic memories of a girl from the parallel class. The first tears, walking late, the accusations of the parents. But who knows what else that fits into this broad concept of teenage love.

it so Happens that many are not quite aware - what is considered his first love, and whether it was at all? After all, love can be called different, often invented, even embellished over time.

And some of this romantic crap almost had to step out the window. In youth, senses, hormones, emotions are running high. And it becomes difficult to identify what happened with you not only as love but as just something bright and meaningful.

of Course, gain experience from life will not wave away. Some people have a first love led to the creation of the family. And someone just pass by, living in the same city with the object of former passion, and nothing shakes in the shower when I met him.

to sum up, it turns out that this elusive feeling, memories from which sweet heart stops, it is not at all. You can't classify a jumble of meetings, some calls, Facebook, and even kisses in the stairwell under the comprehensive concept of "love".

and whether it is necessary? Was it really? And if not, is it worth it to do some adjusting under the template of a teenager from a neighboring yard, or a girl met in his youth in the trip to the sea.

Emotions are important in life and, moreover, they are healing. Colorful, bright, positive emotional memories can give us a powerful resource. But to artificially create from the events of the past life idyll - hardly worth it.

it May be better to focus on today's Mature feelings. And the cloud of memories from my childhood, adolescence embraces to let the first acquaintance with books, art, travelling, communication with friends. It is also a kind of first love.

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