hear This question almost every girl after the age of 25, and even earlier. This can be configured in a straight or indirectly, or be read in his eyes, but the older you get, the more I hear it. And still feel compassionate attitudes of married friends and acquaintances, saying, "Here, poor thing, still nobody coming."
We often hear that each person is different, but for some reason in certain moments that include marriage, trying to brush all under one comb. Society really puts pressure on us in terms of marriage and children, many families still girls are told that we should get married as early as possible, and then no one will. And not knowing what marriage is, why you need it, you marry. Because it's necessary, because so accepted, because it is age appropriate and mom wants grandchildren. What is the result?
clearly this question will be answered by statistics: in Russia, more than 50% of marriages end in divorce. Of course, there are many, but today I want to talk about readiness for marriage.
All girlfriends long married and with children, parents and relatives almost daily to get the question: "Well, when are you getting married?". This pressure difficult to withstand, and she begins to feel that something's wrong if she's not married. After all, according to the version of her society, marriage is such a magical place, where each wants to be and as soon as possible. But it is fundamentally not right, create a family need when feel need it, and then it does not matter the age. You can be in relationships from time to time, just someone to meet or to be one, the main thing is to be internally happy and satisfied life.
to Give an example, one of my friends dated a man for about a year, she was over 30, parents were looking forward to the wedding. But then she has the chance to move to Italy, the country of her dreams, she was offered a good job. It should be noted that in her hometown her work was also good and promising, the key difference here was the country. But she always dreamed of living in Italy, did much to fulfill his dreams, but did not, and then suddenly the opportunity. Her man proposed to her and asked him not to leave, she thought and left. And now she's perfectly happy, is not married, drives a group of Russian tourists in Rome.
Also happens when girls are not relationship, and they take the position that they did not need them or even say they are childfree. For these rhetoric, most often, lies not implemented the desire to be loved and loving, resentment, pain and fears. Here with these feelings is really worth to work and if you feel them, don't be afraid to seek help from a psychologist.
But if you're not married and you feel good, completely comfortable, you can be assured you're fine. Just your time to family and marriage has not yet come!
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