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With the advent of children in the family change is inevitable. And the higher the resistance of parents to change, the harder it is to find the key to the understanding and acceptance of her child.

Gathering from everyday life, adult a person accumulates a suitcase full of resentment, fear, feelings, stones and walls, which then translates into the life of their kids. While there is a genuine misunderstanding of the reasons for the disobedience and whims of the child regardless of the age of the latter.

Learning letter by letter with the younger child, looking rules of life, and social norms, it is often overlooked the most basic thing that the main primer of life for a child is the most parent. What he breathes and lives, what his habits and rules, and not what he says in a warning in an attempt to create a "better" future for their children.

the Child tries their resistance to break clearly defined internal settings adults showing how to feel differently, think differently, act differently.

It is so important to include observation and a willingness to learn from the parents themselves, thus contributing to inner changes.

But, it's easier to break under their own stereotypes emerging personality, continuing to complain about this obnoxious child than to overcome our own barriers and start to change their own habits.

Parent vainly peering into the depth of the relationship, in search of answers, "whatever's wrong with my child", completely oblivious to what lies on the surface. And here he is himself - adult. Ossified in attitudes and habits, pressure and restrictions he is trying to form character and behavior of his child. But the words remain hanging in the air. All because of a picture that is hiding behind these words, it does not match. However, it is more understandable as a visual aid printed small copies of their mothers and fathers.

As the result of acute manifestations of emotions in moments of crisis, the lack of mutual understanding, trust, a sense of insecurity in the child.

But if you look at your little "mirror" from a different angle, with the desire to see yourself and adjust your steps in this life. Then the inner world of the child will begin to change.

the Taste of life, its fullness will suddenly become completely different for everyone who lives within this family. And a place which so firmly held the accusations, resentment and anger, is understanding, self-development and inner peace.

Sometimes it is necessary to descend from the pedestal of a parent and become just a man. And then it will be easier to accept what our children teach us no less. The main thing to hear the main thing to understand and feel. The child probably will continue to be deaf to strict instructions, as previously, will read all the steps of its parent, accepting them as truth, transforming, changing and influencing in your life. Simple steps parents themselves will be different.

it's inevitable, But if the true goal is the creation of inner harmony and, consequently, of external peace in the family.

Differences Maria
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