Psychological "diagnoses" are divided into fashionable, very fashionable and "love addiction/codependency". For a long time I caught myself on the fact that I was in this term something very embarrassing. And now was the time to properly reflect. In the dry residue showed three bitter truth:
1). In fact, "love addiction" does not exist, and can not be, as there can be, say, round squares. Love frees man from internal shackles. This is one of its fundamental properties. And what enslaves, drives in a relationship – passion, pity, lust for power, and much more. But not love.
2). If you are "addicted to love", means you do not like and never liked the one from whom he "lovingly depend". Moreover, it probably means you are simply not matured to such a psychologically adult feelings as love. And that's fine. No one is born knowing how to walk or already knowing how to love.
3). If you are "addicted to love", so it is now useful to you. Because it is the same as any other psychological problems, only your personal growth. In other words, behind the ears, and even against conscious will drags you to happiness and perfection.
And, of course, if you take the help of a good psychologist, move on to happiness and perfection can be much faster, comfortably and without the crutch of "love addiction"!
And to you, fellow, have one request/appeal. Stop confusing themselves and the customers! Let's once and for all harmful will forget the term "love addiction". You can, for example, to say "destructive emotional connection" or "toxic bonds" or "neurotic dependence" or...
A better will offer your coolest version of the term in the comments!
Your reliable psychologist, Oleg Kolmychek.
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