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Yesterday I had to sing at the concert. It did not take place. And I learned about it accidentally opened in the morning news, and in it swims a post from the organizer of the concert that it will not.

And, on the one hand, I am grateful to the magic of life and your sense of what is in the moment came into the VC and at the right moment, clicked on news feed, otherwise I would spend half the day worried and prepared, went there and came to the closed door. And so I spent half a day on other things. And, in General, nothing terrible happened.

on the other hand, is at least pleased that the concert did not bother to warn me about the cancellation of the event. No call, no text, no message in the VC. No way. Here to invite you to be bothered, and to prevent the abolition - no.

Yes, I'm here and think about their responsibility. If you respect his private life, perhaps, is the most common call and clarify if agreements.

But what am I writing all this? And the fact that psychotherapeutic/psychological work is one of the few spaces where there are rules, based on respect for life. Respect to the time of life for both parties: the therapist and the client.

And then, not always. There are certain rules of creation and maintenance of time boundaries at work. But, there are specialists who stick to them, and there are professionals who do not adhere, or adhere only partially.

To the therapist to create in his work (and adhere to) time limits, he should respect the time of your life. To respect and appreciate it truly. And then he respects the life time of your client. And then the therapy becomes a place where the client can learn to respect the time of his life.

it is True, then both (client and therapist) out of the office and into in the ordinary life, where most people do not know about the time value of his own life, and especially not know about the value of time of someone else's life.

Not taught. Taught.

Yes, there are places that seem to teach respect to time, but unilaterally. I am now about transport. Here you are late on the plane - and you're on it will not fly. And I want to fly, can be accurate in time at least in this particular case. But if the flight will take, for any reason, it is no wonder that here you, for example, paid 50 thousand and expected to stay at sea 8 days, and will be in the result, 7, because it flies not in the morning and evening.

So, therapy of the therapist, which keeps time boundaries is, indeed, a luxury. It may seem that the temporal boundaries too hard, and the financial responsibility for their violation is too large, but if the sense of the value of life time appears (his and others), Willy nilly will increase productivity.

PS Yes, the article is about being late for the session, cancellations at the last moment and naruhodo, because I had the wrong day, or time, or just forgot or something. And financial responsibility for disrespect to the time of another person.

Guseva Olga
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