recently, my colleague, Natalia Vitalievna Polacca said such a sentence: "Life has no meaning - it is the taste or lack of taste, but the man himself has the power to generate meanings and using it to create a reality - to create". For me this is a lot of gifts.

first, when I think about the taste of your life, then return from the hustle and bustle at the moment. How do I feel, what deny yourself right now what you really want? When you feel the discomfort of "must" and "fast", think of it as a bell-a reminder. Why am I doing this? What motivates me?

second, this idea involves the desire to look to the meanings that I generate. Why should they? For whom? In Steven Covey, in the 7 principles has a snippet when he proposes to introduce yourself at your own funeral, "hear", what can you tell relatives and colleagues and to begin to live to "hear" what you want. At the time, ten years ago, this piece seemed so inspiring, and this time I shuddered when I thought about it. Who cares what they will say about me, if I'm unhappy? Why do I live this life?

As a psychologist and just man, who pulled himself in his own life from other people's notions of what is good and what is bad, I want to share my feeling that to live, to love, to work "good" and honest from the present moment. Decoys, beautifully advertised society take us away from our true desires and purpose. Yes, if you set goals, then they are implemented - checked. Only happiness it brings is not always.

the history of the University, Leonova show us what man is capable of, which is your dream, your true desire. How many among us lawyers, economists, who have achieved heights in their careers and don't understand why they don't feel anything but tired. If You like Wallpaper paste and You are good at it, then making it for others, You will earn while having fun. You will ask, what about the status, self-development... Oh yeah! This is the implanted stress, which distracts us from our lives! Who would You be, if you hadn't heard since childhood about what should someone be? If I was just doing what he likes.

I also was hoping for the prize - happiness after achieving the goal. I went to an unusual high school, interning in America, working with the financial statements and was not happy. At some point, to understand themselves has become vital. I went to psychology course, and, first and foremost, for yourself. Saw that like a doll hanging on the patterns accumulated by the family, can't wait to hear stories and continue to disassemble. Having more education and having four years of experience with people, I am happy to share the understanding that life can be "tasty" and interesting, that depends on me, what meaning I generate.

the Path to your self alone sometimes long and confusing. Psychologist, as a catalyst, speeds up the process. Most importantly, find a therapist who is like You. Good luck to You in creation of Your reality!