If we speak about sexual problem female anorgasmia, it may be noted that girls and women who come to see me, as a sexologist, psychotherapist and marriage counselor, is supposed to have some kind of Psychotrauma experience. Plus, there is usually a low libido, and as a result, the small need for sex. And of course, sexual blocks and obstacles. All of this gives the problem that there is no orgasm.

When the girl realizes that most of her friends in the intimate sense - they have the sex that they are satisfied and get the pleasure that she might wish to go on reception to the psychologist-the sexologist, and to begin to understand yourself. So it was with my client from Moscow.

she is Now in the search for relationships and taking the time to engage in sexual correction.

the Girl said that initially felt good, was popular among the men. But it so happened that her friend stole client's boyfriend. Immediately deteriorated self-esteem. left confidence, including in the sexual plan. I corrected this situation, and we just dismantle psychological trauma, and eliminated the negative, who lived in the girl all these years, and interfere with relationships.

Next, I remembered the story of when great sexual desire, it was mutual, as suggested by the girl. But resist, showed no passion, no sex. This is not a very big problem, but it also hurt to open up the client sexually, and indirectly formed in the problem of "anorgasmia". Subsequently, she was "discharged" myself, and often to masturbate. As a result, the need for man as a sexual partner, declined.

I Now, as a sexologist, psychotherapist and psychologist, has corrected the situation: Masturbation – of course, it's nice, but it should not come at the expense of sex and relationships. My client from Moscow began to awaken desire. We removed the ice and cold, adding to her sensuality and desire for sex with a real partner.

Then, showed the blocks when you touch men she seemed unpleasant. Was there was a story of a man who, being in alcoholic intoxication, began to molest her, demanding sex. We took out the memory and turning away from his touch.

She said she began to better understand myself and touch of a lover men is different.

there was another unpleasant episode in the life of my client from Moscow, which is associated with the rejection of men. Somehow, closer to the night, she went to train, where in the car besides her and a suspicious drunken uncle there was no one. He pulled out his dick and began to masturbate in front of her. Then at a stop people came and the girl quickly ran into another car. Now she learned a lesson from this, and said that it's not worth the risk to ride in the wagon one, I had to immediately go to a comfortable place for itself.

Then came to the topic of foreplay. Here my client from Moscow also manifested a reduced sensitivity. She said: "I feel nothing". Here came her last relationship, when everything was completed, and arms. Next, we of the men were already a burden.

At the end of our reception on psychotherapeutic sex therapy I, as a psychologist-sexologist, took out the painful memories and committed the client to a new: when everything is fresh, and different. That's all our work on the problem of lack of orgasm.

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